Dudu home baby began to study outside the road, say the truth dudu is hanging on the heart day and night. Children have been living in dudu side, especially left home to a foreign land for ten years, and baby has been dependent. All the children have been taken care of by my own heart, suddenly left my side, a person outside, everything is their own, think of it, dudu will feel suffering. But when the child is older, it is necessary for the child to have a process of growing up and learning to be independent. Although the child himself is outside, but many problems still need parents carefully observe and pay attention to, dudu himself summed up, write this experience, hope to help you have this confusion:
carefulness
I believe this is a problem that all parents who love their children will worry about, and Dudu is no exception. Children at home, not how to alternate the spring, summer, autumn and winter seasons, cold and hot will prepare clothes for children, the diet will also change with the changes of the season, in short, to give children a healthy environment and a healthy body. And the children themselves go to school, cold, may forget to add clothes, hot, may also be on the body to wear the clothes on the diet on living habits and so on all aspects, will not be as comfortable with their parents. Therefore, as a parent, it is necessary to often remind their children, pay attention to seasonal changes in cold and warm, pay attention to eating habits, pay attention to living habits, etc., as long as the unfavorable factors to the body, we must remember to remind their children.
Dudu had planned to accompany the study, thinking of letting the child experience the collective life, but also exercise their self-care ability, so promised to let him live in the baby for a term. Many parents here, because of many reasons can not accompany the school, but they are worried that the school's accommodation environment is not very good, so they try to put their children out, that is, to live in the so-called off-campus apartment. Children will have evening study every night, under the evening study is generally nearly eleven o 'clock, this time the children walk to the off-campus apartment, not to mention waste a lot of time, is the safety problem. There is also a safety problem, that is, the child goes out during the day, or buys something, or goes out to do something, and some of these distances, travel problems will exist, not the child is a primary school junior high school or high school or even college students, this point occasionally to remind the child at all times.
A few days ago, I sent my baby to the new school to report, and a parent, after the report, the parent was not in a very good mood, and later told me that his child was actually with a special love to play, there are many bad habits of children together, it is particularly worried about their children to follow the bad. Many people will say that children learn not to learn bad and friends around what relationship, all rely on their own self-control. There is no big problem with this, but there is also a sentence, called close to the red ink black, we adults sometimes will be some people to inexplicable "infection" of the character, let alone some children? So, this point as a parent you must pay attention to observe, see what changes the child has recently, is there a sudden emergence of some bad habits and so on, if there is, please carefully observe the circle of friends around the child.
Psychological change problem this point includes too much, just from the surface you may not be able to find, you have to observe the child from the inside and find, only in this way you will understand the child's real psychological change problem. Especially those who enter adolescence, just happens to be high school life, adolescent children will have a lot of changes, both physical and psychological. One of them is the child's psychological bearing capacity, and one is about the emotional stirriness, which is every child will face, but also to spend, this problem is handled well, is the child's psychological and personality advantages, if not handled well, or go to the extreme, then for the child's future personality and mentality, will have a great impact. So I have always stressed that don't let the child not ask, even if the child themselves go to school, as a parent, you must find time to spend more time with the child, to give the child wants to care.
The problem of eating habits is also related to the child's physical health. A few days ago, I saw a piece of news. I felt very sad. It is said that a child, before entering the school, he went to the supermarket, and then bought back a pack of spicy strips that many children like to eat, and the parents of the children soon received a call from the school, saying that the child was sent to the hospital, after the parents arrived, the child has stopped breathing. Imagine this scene, let a person sad, a good life, because of food problems and wasted. This is worth every parent's attention and attention. Many parents dislike the food in the school cafeteria and feel that it is not delicious enough, so they let their children eat in large and small meals outside, looking smart and fashionable and rich, but do you know the hygiene and health of the meals in those meals? Dudu went to see the school cafeteria a few days ago, although it does not look as attractive as the meal, but the nutrition is very good, and healthy.
A while ago, the child's high school exam, I am accompanied every day, I found that once at home is very well-behaved children, once entering a new environment, especially the environment is much better than the original environment, the child's heart, or the child's vanity or suddenly expanded. I remember a child, at home when eating a roast sausage are excited not to do, but once I saw him eat a few bites of fried chicken burger and so on, just throw it away, said it was tired of eating and so on. Children outside, there will be many outside temptations in luring children, there is a kind of self psychological temptation, let their own rapid "expansion" up, and even appear with classmates and so on. Therefore, as a parent, do not have more money in your home, you must strictly control the child's personal consumption problem, not to say that you can burn a bag of money in your home to let the child endless consumption, you are not a pain in the child, but purely harm your own child. Home conditions are not very good also should pay attention to, do not let the child be stained with the psychology of comparison, to compare the study, compare the character, compare the quality, compare the accomplishment, is not better than anything?
The change of learning situation is the most important concern of almost every parent. Even more than the child's psychological changes, personality and so on. Although the child's academic performance can not represent everything, and can not say that the child learns well will all be good, learning is not good, but the parents hope that the heart is not difficult to understand, who does not want to let their children, through hard work, and then have a better, better future? When the child goes to school at home, we can see the child's learning state every day, observe the child's homework, the child's test each time, through these we will basically understand the child's specific learning situation. But the child is now going to school outside, what you get, can only be described by the child's teacher or the child himself, true and false is difficult to elaborate. So you have to always pay attention, if the child's grades suddenly decline and so on, you have to pay more attention.
I have a relative who said that his children had a very good personality and were very sensible, and he talked about everything with his family. However, since going to school for three years, my personality has become particularly irritable, and I am angry about every little thing. I have almost nothing to say to my family. When I go home once in a while, I shut myself in the room, and I hardly have any communication with my family except when I eat. This is worth our attention as parents, if the child's new song once changed like this, I guess the possibility of correction is not very large, then, nip in the hole is better than anything. Children go to school, parents do not feel enough to give the child money on the line, as much as possible to take time to see the child, accompany the child, so that the child will still be in your "control", and once the child's character "off track", how should you?
Everything about the child, I always feel heavier than the rest of everything, not male or female, children, is our most proud, but also the most worthy of heart
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